minxy

I am almost okay with the calculation involved in all this. I posted partly as a way of working through what was troubling me. And, obviously, I shouldn't *have* to, but I'm getting to where I think it's a tool I can use if necessary. And you should see how the guys under me in the pecking order are paying attention. I think I'm speaking for more than myself, actually, though i shan't let on.

Thanks. I do think guys have different parameters. But we are women, and we've been trained to be wary.