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Hi all,

I have just returned from my Grandfather's 100th birthday party. He is physically less than stellar, as his transport is failing him and his doctors seem to make the same mistakes every time he is admitted to the hospital, but there you are. He is mentally in top form, but has lost access to the internet in recent years when his favorite platform (webTV, which he could zoom to giant font on his giant flat screen TV) was discontinued.

During this last visit, he asked several of us to get him back on the internet. Our solution so far: the iPad Air 2 with separate keyboard. The accessibility font size works well for him. There are direct apps to newspapers, email, YouTube, and real estate, which he loves. He tried my Dad's and liked it. Apparently, 100 years old is a good time to try a new OS, you know? I love this guy, he is so sharp.

His needs:

A clamp mount for the iPad--he'll prefer it farther away to see better, and tends to put a thumb on the touch screen when he's holding it.

An external, full-size keyboard. Requests: minimal multi-key shortcuts to learn (dexterity is getting limited) maximum keyboard functionality, ease of charging if cordless and a way to set it aside that doesn't take up space on his limited surfaces.

Specifics: Grandpa is in a motorized wheelchair, recliner, or bed most of the time. We would like a clamp mount for the Air 2 that could currently attach to his rolling hospital table without taking up much surface space. We could also envision a clamp that could mount to his chair instead, possibly on the removable leg support, which would mean my aunt (primary caregiver) could take everything on or off at once. Anyone have thoughts on a good brand, recommendations for adaptations or hacks, or experience that they could share?

Next question is recommendations for a good keyboard. Not a case (lots of tablet keyboards are also screen covers or mounts, we don't need that) with a full-size set of keys for Grandpa's hands. Bonus: extra keys to scroll or control the volume. Also a bonus: easy to charge or has a cord to recharge in situ, or has a dock etc. We are not particularly attached to the apple brand here, just need something compatible.

Final question: for those who often use media in a bed or chair, is there a good pocket organizer for a table/bed/chair that you recommend? We want it out of the way (for example, in the hospital rolling tables, where a food tray will take up the whole space), but reachable by Grandpa (so, not over the back of his chair) and primarily to store the keyboard, but possibly also a stylus. I have seen silicon pockets that just sit on a table and fall off the side, but I can't seem to find them in an online search.

Thanks in advance, knowledgable peeps! If you know of something awesome I haven't thought of, please do share as well. I really appreciate it, and don't want to miss out on anything Grandpa wants to tell me.
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So what have you been up to? / Major life changes? Same old same old?

Pretty major. Moved to a new state (California), though I've lived in it before, so it was fascinating to *return* to communities that still wanted me.

What fandom are you in/do you spend most of your time in?

I am such a one-fandom person, honestly, just as bad as I was 10 years ago with Stargate. I read in Sherlock BBC, and lightly lightly dabble in whatever catches my eye in Polyamorous Recs Tumbler Feed. You can see where I'm reading here: Minxy's Bookmarks at AOOO, I still bookmarks anything I would rec. If it's not on AO3, I'll note it in the Sherlock Recs, possibly in both places.

Where do you hang out online?

I read DW and LJ daily. I check Polyamorous Recs on tumblr, but nothing else regularly.

What are you reading?

I just read Naomi Novik's "Uprooted" and loved it. I'm super curious about the tropes I'm starting to notice in girl's coming of age stories, though. I mean, I love that we have them, but between the Blue Sword and Untamed and various other stories, I'm wondering why it's so important that they sleep with people. Why can't they stay virgins? I don't think it harms the stories at all, but in Untamed, there was a battle looming... it worked, but barely, you know? Or maybe you think it did or didn't work more absolutely than I did. I literally just read Springtime in Ihistan by abluestocking on Polyamorous Rec's rec, and it made me want to reread McKinley. Or maybe the Steerswoman's Books. Loved those.

What are you watching?

Hahaha, you are hilarious. The semester just started. It's a new job for me.

What are you making?

I am trying to make myself good food and keep enough stocked that my husband, bless him, doesn't eat it all before I can take it to work for lunch. Life was so much easier when I didn't have to feed boy stomachs. To be fair, he has recently stepped up his game an occasionally started making me dinner. He is perfectly capably of adulting, of course, he just forgot.

What are you squeeing about today?

Leaving work before dusk. I got home during the witching hour, but it was pretty early for a first year (again.)

If you could rope old fandom friends into a new fandom, it would be…

I wish Sherlock wasn't in such fits and starts. I wish I could watch the Bladerunner movies, or Orphan Black, or the Avengers... I caught a PBS (Public Broadcasting System) miniseries about discovering the elements, which was nerdy and cheesy and I loved the whole thing. I loved the Miss Fisher's Murder Mystery series, but it also goes in fits and starts. Amazing sets and props and costumes, though; terrible stunts. I watched a bit of Bomb Girls on Katie M's recommend, but only finished a few episodes. Mostly I am trying to write a grant, so that's all my writing energy.

I should really watch/read/dive into _______ and then come talk to you about it!

What? Who? Actually, go check out the polyamorous recs feed, above, if this is about recommending something.

What else is on your mind?

Teaching? I don't think I'm doing badly yet, despite locking myself out of my office before class the other day. At other, whiter, universities, I had to invite invite invite underrepresented students to talk about research with me, and here the first students I have coming to see me are deaf, hispanic, Iranian decent, in a wheelchair. I love the difference in confidence.

Er, how are you guys? I feel like I stalk you all and never give back.
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I've moved back! Mostly. I am mostly moved in. Cat has settled in well and is making friends throughout the neighborhood (true statement regarding humans, not as accurate if relating to four-legged "friends") but, importantly, when he gets scared he runs back to the house, and not off to who-knows-where. I think he likes it, though the backyard was rapidly too boring for him.

I am officially on junior faculty leave! Or, between jobs for the next two months. This is just starting to sink in, because there are lists of things to unpack and projects to do at the house. We haven't really cooked anything here, yet, besides coffee in the morning, and that needs to change, and the backyard of dirt must (must!) become a magnificent, drought-tolerant garden. Actually, we have already planned an early project to be collecting grey water for the garden, which makes me really happy.

Last time I had free time, I became an avid fic reader and recommender, and even wrote some stories! To do so now would require becoming fannish about something other than Sherlock BBC, which will likely require actually catching up on some media (recommendations, anyone? What are you fannish about?) But, I'm also considering taking classes or brushing up on music and I have a list of things to write for real life stuff. And I need to spend a significant amount of time in the ocean, obviously.

It feels really good to be here again.
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Guys. It's my last class here on Wednesday, mostly because the students are presenting Friday. Then I travel madly for a week or so (Ohio, Montana) give an exam in the middle, and BOOM, pack it up.

I get to keep my rental cat, too! He is now officially my cat. Did I ever show you said cat? Lessee if I can find a photo and remember how to embed a reasonably sized image.

Cut tag is warranted, I think. )

I've been bookmarking like mad over on AO3 (minxy at AO3 bookmarks tab). I found a great trove of bookmarks from an author called ancientreader and have been making my way through. Brilliant! All Sherlock generally, though some Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries snuck in there. And Bomb Girls might be something I could get fannish about as well.

It's going to be a mellow sabbatical summer for me. I could be around more! Love you even in absentia, though.
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I feel so jerked around emotionally these days. I've been meditating, and usually it so improves my ability to cope, but some things are just not cope-able. I find. For me. In current context.

My grandfather is 99 years old, and awesome. ) Fandom and polyamorous recs make days better, is what I'm saying. Check 'em out. And picture the Asian guy.
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I would prefer it if you talented writers would please stop using the word (adverb? adjective?) "impossibly".

Well, it isn't very Sherlockian, is it? It isn't impossible, just very improbable, isn't it? I THINK IT WAS SHERLOCK HOLMES WHO SAID SO.

It's a very annoying word, that's why. It's not impossible if it exists, is my point! Whether Sherlocks eyelashes, the color of John's eyes, or someone's grandmother's fragile fingers or whatever, I don't care. You are overusing that word. Also I do not think it means what you think it means.

The phrases you are writing would be stronger without it. Possibly I should have mentioned that first.

I'm trying so hard to let my eyes just skip over that word when I see it, Sherlock fen, but it's just so damn ubiquitous.

Do all fandoms have these cultural oddities?
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1. I have a cat on my lap who periodically is so overcome with love he burrows into the cowl-neck on my sweater* and licks my neck.

2. There is stupid drama in my department (isn't there always?) but I'm wasting no emotional energy on it because I am out of here come Spring.

3. I've decided the summer of no office is going to be my junior faculty leave. On the list: two papers and a major grant. And moving. And reaquainting myself with the ocean. A lot.

4. I've told the whole department face-to-face. They are all supportive, which I count as a major PR coup. Some of the assholes are taking credit for my success and pronounced that my new job (which is an endowed chair) is a reflection of how much they've mentored me. ASSHOLES. I smiled and nodded.

5. I have wine. And I am releasing my burden.**

6. I have acquired my very favorite box wine (what? I'm low-brow about wine.)

7. In May, I am moving back to the ocean and going to live with my spouse full time. For now? I have a cat cuddled on my lap. and I am happy.



*Cat is confused by the cowl-neck. Initially he tried burrowing under it and gave me quite a look when that didn't yield results.

**I do not wish to ascend, though. You better be listening, ether!

meditation

Nov. 16th, 2014 08:06 pm
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Has anyone tried meditation in my flist? I have recently tried Headspace and found it... transformative. I got interested as a result of this article on LifeHacker and my husband telling me my sleeping habits have changed.

Am I the only one who's had this experience?
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Listen, you don't have to tell me! I realize that when I said I was breaking up with California there were good and valid reasons we were over! But. See.*

This boy followed me out of there. And couldn't find work.

So.

I'm.

Going back to California.

Next summer.

I have no excuse for my actions! Except-- the job is just as good, if not better, and E has a job there waiting for him. And we can live together full time, without this silly flying back and forth!

California has some seriously annoying characteristics, but right now? I can't remember what they are.


*I missed the ocean. I've become a surfer and paddler and when I can't find a boat I swim, and when I can't swim I walk on the beach, and it turns out when you have that kind of connection to the water, it is very very hard to move away from it.
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I am enjoying having married person words to describe my spouse. I don't know if i can describe the essential lack of difference between being married and not except that other people are not confused anymore when you say "husband" or "wife". It makes so many things simpler.

I didn't understand that about marriage, I think. I supported marriage for anyone who wanted it, but I didn't think I wanted it. I'm not sure I respect this big difference in people's treatment of the person who has been in my life with essentially this level of commitment for 5+ years, but I understand now. I understand why this is easier and why I think it should be available to any folks who want those words.

Anyways. That is not the point of this post.

The point is that a cat has moved in. Ignoring the negotiations of the humans involved (or who think they are making decisions here), a cat has decided he is my cat. I thought he should wait and meet my spouse (see above) before deciding, but no. Cat moved in, essentially 1-2 days before E came home. He loves E. Cat (aka "Tristan" if that is, in fact, his name) has frolicked so happily, and snuggled so vehemently, nightly, that we were not sure what to do with a cat that had no limits to personal space. All scritches were good scritches! ALWAYS. I... what?

Day 2: he climbed all the way into our laps.

Day 4: he flipped the switch while lying between us on the couch, having bounced back and forth for hours getting various types of strokes and pets and scritches. I feel like we've established that the cat does have needs and lines one shall not cross.

I missed having a little soul around the house, happy to see us and pleased to snuggle and tell you all about his day doing cat stuff. What a wonderful little dude.
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Hello flist.

Today I left work at 6:30 and was so relieved to be home early enough to pick stupid tomatoes. If I survive submitting two grants in the next month, and seeing my parents twice, I will throw myself a party.

Bloody hell.

But, there was dancing in my general chemistry laboratory. I told them not to be jealous of my boogie. Sometimes I think fucking with student's expectations is the most important thing I do; fucking with colleague's expectations is one of the most dangerous things I do. Too bad I really can't help it.
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Hello flist.

How's things with you? I am discontent for three notable reasons: 1) my refrigerator broke last week and newly minted husband-type was already off working and not able to assist at all, which brings me to 2) it was the first bloody day of classes so I couldn't stop to fix it. Fridge is still on the fritz. and 3) I seem to be losing weight again.

This last bit probably isn't a source of worry (I am a healthy height/weight combo, pinky swear), except it's been three years now where I lose weight in the beginning of the fall semester when I am most nervous, and then proceed to lose weight more (albeit much more slowly) over the course of the year. I'm just wondering if this is how things are now? Now that I have my metabolic panel blood work coming back in a reasonable range? Am I one of those people that lose weight when things are nervous or tough? Because, just between us, flist, that is not how it works for anyone I'm related to. It is a strange thing to edit your ideas of not only what you look like, but how you respond to the universe. It is. So sometimes I worry.

I've decided my new metric for healthiness is breasts (my own)--I might have to order a freaking 30 or 32 inch band for my D cups online when I can't find it in stores, but as long as they are still Ds, I'm not going to panic. As long as my breasts stay huge I'm probably fine, right? Right, flist? Guys?

So a miiiiiild source of discontent is that most of my favorite Sherlock reccers are quiet lately. I may have to start finding my own stories! Gasp! In case there are others out there who, like me, are dying for Sherlock BBC recs, I am posting a link to My Sherlock Recs here, which also contain, at the end, links to my AO3 bookmarks and favorite reccer's sites. Yup.

And now I shall return to non-refrigerated food for dinner.

success!

Aug. 13th, 2014 10:48 am
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Reader, I married him.

That was a great party.
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[personal profile] nestra just posted polyamorous recs news that included an announcement about fixing broken links. I... have some notes to myself about how I need to do that, but I'm impressed as hell that she did.

To make things simpler, and because I'm active enough in fandom now to know where all the kids are playing, I checked my AO3 works page and found it really lacking. Less than half of my fic were there. Turns out I wrote 29 stories while in the SG-1 fandom.

I updated my page with all my stuff. Or, I am updating it. I have a half a dozen more drafts to proof (when did I write all this?) but it's almost there. So, if anyone ever needs that material (Teal'c fic anyone? Anyone jonesing for old-school SG-1 slash? Yes?), it's in a proper archive, y'all.

ETA: updated! wow. The process was a little buggy--I couldn't edit the fandom or date originally published or remix links very easily, but I think everything is legible.
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INTERNET.

Oh man, guys. I just had to return my wedding dress to exchange for a smaller size. Why does tradition dictate purchasing this clothing six months out, anyway? When you have a two year history of changing sizes, it just doesn't make sense.

Separately, I haven't been a single digit size since I was 15. I am not sure how I feel about this. How can a size that small possibly fit me? I am just going to be returning it again for a proper size 10, aren't I? THIS IS NOT WHO I AM.

I have a not-bridal shower on Sunday. It's not one because I am terrified of parties that claim to be weather systems. But it probably is one. I'm kind of nervous it's going to be a weather system. Why are they messing with me like this? But it's a two month countdown to what is possibly the most-objectified day of my entire life, if my mother has anything to do with it. I can't wait for the planning to be over and for people to just show up for a rockin' party.

Here's hoping the new dress size fits well.
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I'm home resting for a few hours, and regretting that I'm not more active here anymore, and therefore have no idea if anyone is around to talk to me. Time was, I would absolutely know who, in which timezone, would likely be a) online and b) interested in a fannish discussion.

Possibly the only thing I'm fannish about right now is the Hola! program I discovered when watching the Olympics. It let me (and my computer) be British for the purposes of listening to sane announcers and seeing the entirety of the events I wanted to see. But! Did you know I can also be Canadian, eh? Yes, and therefore stream hdtv.ca home improvement shows, which are much more generously provided about two hours North of where I actually live.

Anyway, I'm home with abdominal "issues" (see? I can be sensitive) which I have not really had since I was a little person. As a result, I am nostalgic for things that have given me comfort in the past. Before you ask, since the wedding plans have hit "BEARS!" levels of messed up, I'm really not craving my family, heh.

General affection to all of you!
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"Sherlock makes a mental note to be revolted in the morning."

Seriously. It's magnificent! I expresses that the character is in the middle of a shift! Is developing and the reader sees right through it. It's a lovely phrase!

Please, feel free to substitute "Sherlock" with the character of your choice (Aeryn Sun anyone? Cam Mitchell? Dean Winchester? Arthur?) and write lots and lots of fanfic.

FYI, this particular fanfic was In Deed Accomplish Our Designs by greywash on AO3, part of the excellent "The Good Morrow" series. Well played, author. Well played.
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My coach at the gym (it's CrossFit, if you were wondering, so kind of personal training? But not?) just informed me tonight that he was officially a baby (1 year old) when I moved across the country in HIGH SCHOOL.

On the other hand, I made really good lemongrass noodles for dinner on a whim and a prayer. So that's totally worth being proud of.
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One of the fic comms I read is doing "trope inversion" as a theme, where a character wakes up straight, or some such. It occurred to me that it would be a really neat Sherlock story to have him wake up with more memories. Memories he deleted, or experiences he deleted, and possibly have his recent relationships or experiences shed new light on them.

Relatedly, the posting window saved the following as a draft at somepoint, and I recall Brown Betty's meta on this was really very funny, so here you go:

Link spam:

Emily Nussbaum's lovely piece at the NewYorker The intersection of fans and Sherlock.

Brown Betty's hilarious alternate suggestions of 6 ways Sherlock's porn habits would be more believable (than "normal")
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I'd seen some words that might be construed as spoilers leading up to this episode. They were )

and now, the episode )
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